“Short
Circuit Painful Heartache & Get
Over Your Ex Girlfriend In A
Matter Of Days, Instead Of
Staying Hung Up & Heartbroken For Months Or Even YEARS After She Moves
On…”

I’ll Show You The Shortcut To
Getting Over Your Ex Girlfriend, No Matter How Much Humiliation, Jealousy Or
Pain You’re Feeling, Or How Convinced You Are That You’ll Never Feel The Same
About Anyone Else…

Dear Friend,

If it didn’t work out with a girl that you really liked
and you are going through the shock and pain of breaking up with her and you
don’t know what to do next…Then this is the most important letter you could
be reading right now.

But first, I want to know a few more things…

…And the questions I’m about to ask you might seem pretty intense, so be totally
honest and tell me if these
seem familiar…

Do any of these sound like what you are
going through?

If you are like I was when I was going
through this in my life, then you can probably relate to several of them.

I remember the only thing I could think
about was my ex girlfriend… Or more accurately, the
lack of my ex girlfriend.

Aside from the pain I was feeling
everything else in my life seemed hazy and unimportant.

In the city I was living in it seemed
like every other brunette I saw looked kind of like HER…

And everytime I saw the same model car
she drove a part of me would jump inside because I thought it might be
her.

Honestly, I felt stupid… But I just
couldn’t help it.

I would think about my ex’s
mannerisms… The little things we used to do together that I didn’t even think
about until I found myself doing them alone…

Then I would think about how things got
screwed up, and brood over how things could have been different if I hadn’t
screwed them up.

On one hand I just wanted to do
something amazing to win her back, make her see that she was making a mistake.

And there was another part of me that
just wanted to make her regret leaving.

I wanted to make her jealous, I wanted
her to see me with a hotter girl or out with my friends having a great time without her.

I wanted her to see how my life was
great and that she missed her chance to be a part of it…

Even though secretly all I could think
about was how to get her back in my life again…

AHHHHHHH
This F&%#! Hurts!

      What I
was going through pretty much weighed down everything else in my life.

      Like a
VIRUS attacking the very core of my system and it was almost as if it made sure
that nothing else in my life could run at full capacity.

      I found
myself constantly fighting
the urge to call my ex to
talk about my pain, despite the fact that she had a considerable part in causing
it…

      And
regardless that I knew deep down that it was actually over.

There was this profound
edginess all the time, that
would only go away when I had some kind of contact with her, or did things that
reminded me of her.

But at the same time, doing any of that would
just cause MORE pain.

There was also this powerful fear that I
didn’t want to face.

There was a part of me that was truly
convinced that this last heartbreak had scarred me in a way that I
would never recover from.

It was almost as if I somehow I felt
“used up” by this whole ordeal with my ex girlfriend, and I would
probably eventually settle for something mediocre at best.

Sure, I knew eventually I would find someone
else, but that didn’t make me feel better at all. What I wanted was her, and I
couldn’t have her anymore.

That had been my last shot, and I blew it.

What
I Thought Would Make Me Feel Better Almost Always Made Me Feel Worse…

      I
remember my friends and family said so many things to make me feel better, but
they seemed to fall flat. I know they all meant well but none of it really spoke
to where I was at.

      I hate
to admit this, but I was also so consumed by being with this girl when we were
together, that when things feel apart… I found I had let a lot of my previous
friendships go stale, so I didn’t really have many close confidants to lean
on.

I know, I know… Don’t say it. Pretty lame,
I know.

If I got myself to go and talk to other girls,
but for most part it wouldn’t do anything for me.

Drinking did make me feel better for a little
while, but I would always feel worse afterwards.

It was clear I was doing to it to mask over
the pain, and not to go out and have a good time. It was also dangerously easy
for me to convince myself that it was a good idea to call or text my ex when I
had been drinking…

I tried dating other women, but no one seemed
to measure up, and every now and then when I would occasionaly meet one that I
liked I could tell she could sense my wounded confidence …So I wasn’t having
that much luck there anyway.

I tried distracting myself as much as I could
with work and school, but there would always be those times…

In the evenings, weekends, or on holidays
where I would catch myself alone in a situation that would bring up that intense
longing again.

The big turning point in this area of my life
is when I became incredibly lucky and found a mentor.

To this very day I consider myself to be very
fortunate to have stumbled upon someone who was able to teach me what I so
desperately needed to learn, even though didn’t know it at the time.

The REAL Problems That Come From Painful Break Ups Are The Things Guys DON’T
Talk About…

Guys often make the mistake of pretending it isn’t a big deal…

The truth is more dismall than most people realize, and strangely, NOBODY every
talks about it.

• The end of a relationship is the
  biggest life event, along with the death of a loved one, that
  can lead to a depression, more
  so than the loss of a job.
• After a painful breakup guys are
  often shown to be depressed, even though they often claim to be doing fine,
  mainly because they have become so effective at masking their suffering,
  even from themselves
• Men often have less close ties to
  friends and family then women do, so the VOID left after the end of
  relationship is BIGGER for guys and is actually harder to deal with
• Over a million American women
  report being stalked every year, 59% of them by boyfriends, husbands, former
  spouses or live in partners…And these are just the ones that are actually
  reported, as most are not.
• Men are actually far more likely
  to engage in SELF DESTRUCTIVE behavior such as drugs and alcohol, and they
  are 3 times more likely than women to commit suicide

So don’t let ANYONE tell you that it isn’t big deal or that you’ll just get over
it…

Telling
Her How You “Really Feel” Or Trying Harder To Get Her Back Will Hurt
You Even More

       I hate to be a spoilsport, but I really
have to get this out there…

The Hollywood style endings, (You
know… the ones where she comes running back into the heros arms because he
finally did something to show how much he really loves her…)

Well they are just that; Hollywood endings.

I know this not only from
interviewing and coaching hundreds of men and women on both sides of this, but
I’ve also been there… More times than a guy would probably want to admit.

Once a girl has decided to move
on, pouring your heart out, sending her gifts, begging her to comeback
ultimately it will make you feel worse in the end.

Whatever you do, don’t be the guy
your ex girlfriend talks about like this… 

       Once a girl has decided to move
on, pouring your heart out, sending her gifts, begging her to comeback
ultimately will make you feel worse in the end.

The more you persist, no matter how
real your feelings may be, the more it will come across to her as acts
of desperation.

In your ex girlfriend’s mind, the
line between acts of kindness and obsessive ex boyfriend may be different from
yours.

Once you cross that line in her
mind, its almost impossible to redeem yourself after that.

Your ex girlfriend is far more
likely to respect you in the future (and be friends with you) if you quit while
you are ahead.

Which means manning up and walking
away with your dignity.

Oh yeah. It’s easy to forget about
this, but there is one more person that will respect you for keeping your
composure and dignity.

You.

It may be really hard to see this
now, but take it from someone who has heard literally thousands of stories from
guys…

Almost all guys regret
acting out of desperation to get their ex girlfriends back, and they all
most always wish they had quit while they were ahead.

Living
Well Is The Best Revenge, But The Sad Truth Is Most Guys Live Worse…

       What’s almost as bad as not being able to get her back?

       Seething and stewing in resentment for months or even YEARS afterwards.

       Many
guys spend weeks, months or even years fuming on the inside over their break up
and what their ex did to them.

       Aside
from serious effects on your health and a huge drain of energy, the bottom line
is, being angry all the time SUCKS.

Then there is always the risk of becoming “that guy.”

You’ve probably met him before… You know, the guy who keeps talking about
his ex all the time, and while at first people want to help, after a while they
start to tune him out as soon as he starts another sentence with “That
reminds me of my ex…”

      At
first people want to help… And friends and family want to listen…

After a while they start to tune him out as soon as he starts another sentence
with “That reminds me of my ex…”

      In
many cases, even if they don’t talk about it that much, their general bad mood
and negative state makes it not only hard to make new friends but they also find
themselves begining to be excluded from their current groups of friends.

Guys will often pick up unhealthy habits just to escape the pain. Drugs,
alchohol… overeating. On top of that they drop their own pursuits because they
are emotionally and physically drained of energy.

(Reruns of CSI, Lost and hours online playing World of Warcraft DO NOT fall into
this category, by the way.)

While its normal to experience loss and grief after a break up, often guys will
get stuck thinking and acting in ways that cause them to spiral downwards into a
full blown DEPRESSION, which in most cases can then only be treated by
professional therapy and medication.

Ironically,
The Blow To Your Confidence Actually Makes You Less Attractive
To Other Women

Guys are far more likley to try to go
out and fill the void left behind by their ex girlfriend with another girl

There’s a piece of advice that has been
floating around that goes “Sleep with ten girls and you’ll be over your
ex.”

This may actually work for some guys,
but there is catch.

Most guys have noticed, to their
confusion, that when they have a girlfriend, other
girls generally are MORE
forward and flirtatious.

The confidence and happiness you feel
when you are with a girl you’re really into is obvious to other women on a very
subtle level.

Well, when you are trying to fill the
emptiness you’re feeling with a new girl, this
same principle starts working against you.

But of course for most guys who are
still hung up on their ex, the shadow of their relationship with their ex
girlfriend becomes a grinding saw that chips away at their confidence.

Women sense this in men.

Ironic isn’t it? The one thing you need
to attract other women is the very same thing your ex girlfriend takes with her
when she leaves.

Worse yet, when many guys do find a
replacement, they bring old baggage from their breakup into the new
relationships sabotage them from the start..

This is especially true with guys whose
ex girlfriend left them for another guy or cheated on them.

They become convinced that it will
happen again so they act in all kinds of jealous, needy and possesive ways that,
in many cases, causes this to become self-fulfilling prophecy.

The
Exciting Single Life Really Starts When You Are Truly Free From Your Ex
Girlfriend

       Most guys, at one point or another want
to enjoy the perks of being single before they get into another relationship.

There is an appeal of the care free
lifestyle and being able to date whenever and whomever they want and actually
enjoy the excitement of being attracted to new women.

Problem is many guys can’t adjust
to being single, even though they want to.

Because they never truly get over
their ex, being single is more painful and brings them too much anxiety to be
able to get the most out of it.

They look at being single as the
uncomfortable space between relationships and NOT a time of freedom and growth
that they can really enjoy.

Instead of settling into their new found
freedom they look for ways to fill the VOID left behind,

Often this will drive them to rush into
(or worse yet, settle for) another relationships that they don’t really want or
aren’t ready for.

Of course, a few years down the line
when they are hanging out with their single friends they regret that they
didn’t take advantage of their own time to enjoy single.

“Social
Conditioning” Has Guys All Screwed Up

The truth is most of us men in our culture have been taught so many things that
are conflicting and harmful,
it actually causes us to make thing WORSE. 

Guys risk being seen as weak or pathetic if
they take a break up badly, so we not only walk around pretending
we’re okay, but we also feel stupid for being so upset in the first place.

      We
don’t even know how to handle this kind of pain.

      We
withdraw, we don’t talk about it. We distract ourselves with work, school, video
games…

      Or we
do what others guys do… You know, a bowl of wings, some beer and a few nudy
bars should be enough to fix it, right?

      You and
I both know that’s bull&$#!

      But the
social conditioning runs much deeper than that.

      The
music, movies and television we have been watching our whole lives has poured
all these ideas about “love is forever” and “soulmates” that
now we think if we are really in love, we shouldn’t move
on.

      That
somehow it is actually a good thing to stay in love with a girl long after she’s
moved on or that its somehow “romantic” to keep trying to win her
back.

      If you
need a reminder just turn on the radio for 5 minutes… How many love songs do
you hear? What are they about?

Exactly.

      And how
many movies or television shows end with the girl finally coming back to the
hero because he did something to show how much he really loved her… And that
she just had to realize he was “the one” all along.

      You
might think this stuff is harmless…

      But if
you don’t think seeing and hearing this in the background your whole life has an
effect on how you think things should play
out…

      You’re
wrong.

So essentially our social programming has told
us…

      1.) As
guys we risk being seen as pathetic if we admit to feeling heartbroken.

      2.) But
at the same time if its “true love” in spite of everything, the pain,
exhaustion, hopelessness we should still hang on.

      3.) If
we decide to move on we have been told all the WRONG ways to do it.

      Not
only do these ideas conflict, but they are also harmful. And more importantly,
they are WRONG.

      They
are also the reason why so many guys spend so much time screwed up over their ex
girlfriends.

      If you
feel conflicted and confused about what you are going through right now, it’s
not your fault.

Fortunately there are ways around the bad programming we’ve all had.

What YOU Do & Think Has A Direct Effect On How Fast You Feel Better &
Whether You Can Ever Fully Move On

       I
hate to break this to you.

If you loved this girl enough to feel heartbroken, you are going to have to
experience some pain and suffering.

You wouldn’t be human if you didn’t.

In fact, you have to feel
some pain, if you are going truly get over her. This is just part of the healing
process.

The question here is how much pain? And for how long?

Where most guys go wrong is that the habits and patterns of thinking they
develop in the confusing and chaotic time when they are feeling heartbroken
actually keeps them from healing.

In fact, it just amplifies the pain.

What you rehearse and repeat in your mind conditions how you think.

While on one hand it is natural to hash things out, vent and let things play out
in your head…

There is a certain point where this goes from a natural release to forming a
habit that becomes harder and harder to stop.

I’m sure you know this already, that thinking this stuff just makes you feel
worse… But it’s just so HARD to stop.

These thoughts keep recycling in our minds, gaining momentum because the part of
us that is still in love is trying somehow to solve a situation we no longer
have control over.

This is where it ceases to even be about love anymore.

It’s just repetitive self torture that seems like we have no control over.

The
Trick To Moving On & Feeling Better Fast Is To Let Your “Psychological
Immune System” Do ALL The Work

Whether you know it or now, you have within all the natural mechanisms to
recover from being heartbroken.

The problem is that most guys
get in their own way.

Think about what happens when you get a really bad flu.

You take medication to feel better, but ultimately you are simply setting up the
conditions for you body to heal itself.

You rest, you stay out from the cold, and you supply your body with what it
needs to heal itself.

What you DON’T do is go out drinking, hit the gym for 2 hours a day, avoid
sleep… etc.

The BIGGEST reason guys spend so much time suffering from a broken heart,
longing for their ex, and ultimately driven to do and say things they regret
later is because they are essentially doing the same things.

Guys often trap themselves by a vicious cycle of repetative thoughts, images,
and habits that fuel the emptiness they feel. Sometime this goes on for years.

The worst part of it all, is that they
don’t even know they are doing it.

Part of the reason why is that even
though many people really fear the pain of heartbreak, they don’t think about it
until they are really in it.

I mean really, nobody thinks about this
stuff when they dont need to (aside from me).

Well, like a car breaking down, losing a
job, or getting sick, you may not think about it much when things are good, but
when they do happen, it
becomes ALL you can think about.

But UNLIKE being stranded in a car,
jobless, or bedridden with the flu, being heartbroken is not only incredibly
more profound…

…but it’s a little more difficult to
figure out WHERE you can get the knowlegde to deal with a break up and get over
an ex girlfriend without so much pain.

That is why I wrote my book…

Here are just a few of the
amazing tips, techniques, and secrets you will find inside…

How
To Navigate A Painful “On & Off” Situation, Indecisiveness &
How To Know When To Finally Quit

Your Ex

• Is
  your ex girlfriend sending you mixed signals? Here
  are the most common reasons why. (These can be pretty painful to accept, but
  seeing these now can keep from MORE pain in the future)- pg. 72
• How
  to know if she is just being “nice” or feels guilty, or if she is
  really sending you signals that she wants you to keep trying to pursue her.
  (Guys almost always get these mixed up)
• Here
  are 3 signs that she is conflicted
  between you and another guy
  she’s recently met… How to tell even
  if she hasn’t said anything to you about him -
  pg. 37
• NEWFLASH:
  Your ex may not know what she wants. A
  “counter-intuitive” trick to see if she is really planning to
  leave you for good – pg. 39
• What
  if she still wants a relationship with you after she
  cheated on you with another guy? Here is a simple yet effective way to tell
  if you can still salvage the relationship – pg. 51
• What
  if youre convinced she
  is making a mistake or
  that she is just sabotaging herself? Here is how to tell if you should start
  moving on or try again – pg. 19
• What
  if she is trying to get YOU to break up with her? Some girls just cant
  muster up the courage or feel too guilty to do it. Here are the signs she
  wants out but can’t do
  it herself – pg. 42

You

• 7
  “Below the radar” psychological “gliches” that are
  keeping you from letting go EVEN if you know you should move on – pg. 46
• A
  mature “comeback” to say to a her if she has been really rude to
  that shoots straight through to her psychological core and makes her regret
  the way she’s been acting – pg. 35
• Why
  so many guys get stuck in the “Its complicated” phase and cause
  themselves so much more pain and the easy-to-fall-for backsliding mistakes
  to avoid – pg. 43

How
To “Short Circuit” The Heartbreak, Powerful Edginess, & Anxiety
After Or During A Break Up

Heartbreak

• A
  plain English breakdown of what is really
  going on when you get
  that“broken heart” feeling
  (Understanding this will allow you to have more CONTROL over it in the
  coming days and weeks) – pg. 20

• The
  3 part process that shows exactly how constant
  thoughts about your ex control
  your mood, why YOU can’t control them, and what you can do to SHORT CIRCUIT
  them before they get worse – pg. 22
• How
  to stop the negative
  feedback loop that can
  spiral downwards from normal feelings of loss to overwhleming feelings of
  depression with this simple “mind hack” when you feel the onset -
  pg. 41
• What
  is that empty feeling? I’ll
  bet the answer is not what you think it is… Once you know this it won’t
  ever be “overwhleming” again (If you are kind of the romantic
  type, this one will shock you)- pg. 30

Edginess & Anxiety

• A
  quick technique that allows you to diffuse that “stir crazy”
  feeling (This is not only scientifically PROVEN, but the more you do it, the
  more powerful the effects become) – pg. 32
• A
  simple technique to use in your room, apartment or office RIGHT NOW that
  will take the edge off and
  naturally distract you in the coming weeks or months. The best part is that
  you can learn this in 2 minutes and start feeling its effects TONIGHT – pg.
  59

Speeding
Up The Recovery Process As Fast As Humanly Possible

The Coming Days & Weeks

• Exactly
  what to expect in the coming days and weeks, and how to speed up the process
  so you can be back
  at 100% mentally,
  physically and emotionally as fast as humanly possible
• The
  biggest mistakes most guys make that keep their “physcological immune
  system” from doing
  the healing on its own, and how to avoid them – pg. 34
• Diffusing
  the gut-wrenching pain of going “cold turkey” if therelationship
  ended suddenly. Here is a “first aid kit” with specific
  remedies to get you through it – pg. 36
• What
  if it feels like you might be headed towards a depression? Not
  being able to sleep, sleeping to much, loss of appetite and no motivation can
  hit hard after a painful break up. Here is a plan to lift you out of it
  before it actually becomes a chronic problem – pg. 17

Common Mistakes That Keep You Stuck

• A
  powerful illustration of why moving on seems impossible for the first few
  days and weeks and how buying into this “illusion” can actually
  make it TRUE by doing
  so. (This one idea can change the process around DRAMTICALLY)- pg. 27
• The
  fatal error that guys have been “socially programmed” to make that
  ALWAYS makes moving on much
  harder (It’s actually a
  very simple fix, it’s just hard for some guys to do; I’ll show you the
  easiest way) – pg. 44
• If
  you keep beating yourself up because you
  are convinced that you “blew it” and
  can’t stop thinking the mistakes that you made. Here is a powerful
  “reframe” that will ensure you never beat yourself up over this
  girl ever again – pg. 41
• The 5
  traits that men who naturally
  recover fast have
  and how to cultivate them (These are traits YOU already have, now you just
  have to give them a little tweak) – pg. 9
• There
  will be a “tipping point” when the pain of the break up begins to
  lift very quickly. Here is the critical
  error you must NOT make
  when you get there (this mistake can literally undo all
  of your progress)- pg. 54

Setting
Yourself Up So You Effortlessly Beat
The Temptation To Call, Email Or Check Her Online Profiles

Knowing If It’s Time To Quit

• How
  to know if you have crossed the line and you are now becoming the guy she
  tells her friends “can’t take no for answer” (Many guys get
  angry when they read this because they wish they knew these earlier)- pg. 63
• What
  to do in those moments when you are tempted
  to contact her, even though you know you shouldn’t. Here is how to
  keep your calm and maintain your dignity in even the weakest moments – pg.
  74
• What
  if she told you to
  call her or keep in touch, or she keeps calling you? How do you
  know if she really means
  it or if she is just being nice? Here
  is an easy way to tell so you know if she is just stringing you along – pg.
  74
• Exactly
  what to say to her before you cut off contact. This
  might be the one thing that actually ensures a future friendship or the
  possibility of rebuilding of a relationship, and why 90% of the time guys
  screw this up – pg. 81

Resisting Temptation

• 3
  signs you are creating reasons to still see, contact or email her and how
  you can tell if you are tricking yourself into hanging on – pg. 47
• How
  to set yourself and your surroundings up automatically so
  there is actually no temptations to resist, no willpower to burn, no more
  feeling bad after you give in – pg. 91
• How
  to make your exit so
  you’ll not only walk away with dignity but will leverage two little-known
  psychological principles that will also MASSIVELY increases the chances of
  the two of you being friends in the future) – pg. 87
• Tempted
  to check her Facebook
  or MySpace to see
  what she is doing or if she with any other guys? Here is simple trick that
  will allow you to avoid such an easy temptation without having to avoid
  being online or deleting your account – pg. 96

Diffusing
Intense Onsets Of Loneliness, Longing For Your Ex & “Love Attacks”

Longing For Your Ex

• Nights,
  weekends and holidays are usually the toughest… Here is a “took
  kit” to use to make sure you dont find yourself in one of these longing
  situations – pg. 86
• What
  to do with all of your photos, emails, text messages and all other media
  with her in it that does NOT involve destroying them (You’ll kick yourself
  for not thinking of this one before)- pg. 73
• People
  will MOVE TO ANOTHER CITY because everything around them reminds them of
  their ex? Here is a 3 part process to re-create the same effects without
  doing anything as drastic – pg. 102

Loneliness

• The truth about
  what loneliness really is. This is usually a sticky topic for guys; I’m
  going to break it down and give you detailed actions you can take to prevent
  the onset of loneliness – pg. 33
• The
  fear of being alone often drives guys to keep trying
  to get back with their ex Here
  is a step by step plan to alter your daily life so you don’t give in – pg.
  73
• Being
  around your friends and family often doesnt make the loneliness after a
  break up go away… In fact in some cases it actually makes things feel
  worse. Here is why, and what you can do about it – pg. 74
• The
  dreaded “Love Attack”; those
  times when you are overwhelmed with pain and longing for your ex. These
  WILL happen in the coming days and weeks. How to spot the times they are
  most likely to happen, and how to get IMMEDIATE relief – pg. 55

Exactly What
To Say In Your Situation That Will Allow You To Walk Away With The Upper Hand

Those Last Few Conversations

• Did
  you know that most people define ENTIRE relationships by how it ends? Here
  are some tips and strategies to deal with the those final (sometimes really
  painful) talks that will allow you maintain the upper hand – pg. 91
• How
  to cut through the “Emotional fog” that keeps
  you from saying what you really want to
  say, without beating around the bush, and “choking” at the last
  moment – pg. 97
• The 3
  traits any man must
  display in those final interactions will command respect of your ex, no
  matter what your current situation is – pg. 94
• 12
  words that will literally turn the tables even
  if you have already called too much, begged her to stay, cried, or did
  anything else that gave her the upper-hand… This one thing will make
  it far more likely that you will ever be able to rebuild anything in the
  future – pg. 93
• What
  if she stopped calling or she
  just disappeared (this
  can really mess a lot of guys up). Here is game plan for handling this
  especially painful kind of ending – pg. 74
• A
  very counter-intuitive psychological
  trick that will leave
  your relationship open for friendship in the future when YOU choose to
  initiate it – pg. 68

Conquering
The Anger & Jealousy So It Doesn’t Consume Your Life Or Effect Future
Relationships

Jealousy

• Being cheated
  on can eat away at
  a guys self-esteem for months or years to come. How soften the blow and
  quickly get to a place where itdoesnt bother you anymore -
  pg. 43
• Some
  guys are plagued with constant imagry of their ex with the“other
  guy” (even if
  there is no other guy) and they repeatedly imagine them over and over. Here
  are some tricks to “white them out” as they come up – pg. 49
• A
  perspective shift on what jealousy REALLY is. This will change how you experience
  jealousy and eliminate
  the guilt and anger most guys also feel when they get jealous – pg. 49
• Here
  is a powerful trick to get you to stop comparing yourself to other guys and
  keep wondering what about you made her pass you up for him instead – pg. 45

Anger

• Guys
  often become so angry that it consumes them, and all they think about is
  ways to make her jealous, tell her off, or get
  her back somehowHere is a powerful set of techniques to get you to a
  place where you “Literally
  just dont care” enough
  to be bothered by it – pg. 71
• The
  one thing you must NEVER do if you are still really pissed off during those
  last few talks with your ex (If you make this mistake you will almost surely
  be consumed with thoughts about it for weeks) – pg. 53

How
To Break Free Of A Toxic Post Break Up Friendship And Leave The Door Open For A
Future Friendship

Staying Friends

• What
  if you were best friends and
  you are used to talking to her all the time? Should you stay friends? How to
  know whether you should salvage a friendship or walk away from the whole
  thing – pg. 27
• She
  says she just wants to be friendsWhen girls say this most of the time this
  is what they really mean (this
  almost always throws guys off) – pg. 52
• The critical
  mistake guys make
  that almost always destroy the chances of a future friendship The good news
  is you can stop doing these things IMMEDIATELY so they dont cause anymore
  damage – pg. 57
• She
  said she is dating other
  guys Here is how to tell
  if she is trying to to make you jealous so you pursue her more or if she is
  giving you a chance to leave first (Girls do this a lot and most of the time
  guys get the wrong message) – pg. 73
• Why
  it is critical that YOU initiate any decisions on how and where the
  friendship is going to go. Here is how to do it, and exactly
  what to say - pg.
  95
• Here
  are the unconscious reasons most guys want to stay friends, andend
  up torturing themselves in
  the process. Find out if YOU fit into this category – pg. 64

If You Cant Avoid Seeing Her

• What
  if you work together or
  you cant avoid seeing her (awkward).
  Here are some straightforward ways to save yourself a lot of pain and be
  able to relax and not
  worry about seeing her all
  the time – pg. 83
• You
  live to together and
  things have fallen apart This is one of the most painful situations anyone
  can be in; I have a step by step way to handle all
  of pain points of
  living together after a break up, from handling logistics to dating again -
  pg. 86

Dealing
With Your Social Group; Mutual Friends, Her Friends & Your Friends

Dealing With Friends Who Knew You “As A Couple”

• If
  youre pissed off at your ex, should
  your friends take sides? What
  if she still hangs out with some of your friends? How to handle this in a
  way that helps you save face – pg. 90
• What
  if you guys hang out with the same social circle and have many of the same
  friends? Here is how to sort out a messy social situation so your break up
  doesnt affect your other relationships – pg. 86
• Here
  is another sticky one What if you guys made friendships while you were
  together, how do you handle those? Here is a way to approach those
  situations that allow you to maintain those friendship and let your ex deal
  with awkwardness – pg. 96
• What if
  she cheated on you with one of your friends? This
  can be one of the most painful and paralyzing situation of all. Here is adetailed
  way to handle every party involved that will save you face -
  pg. 102

Clearing
A “Blank Slate” To Fully Prepare You For New & Exciting
Relationships

How You Know When You’ve Really Moved On

• How
  long should you wait until
  you look for another relationship? How do you know when you are really ready
  or if you are just trying fill the void left by your ex. (This is especially
  useful for guys who might consider themselves “seriel monogamist”
  and are used to being in a relationship) – pg. 91
• 5
  fatal errors make when guys start new relationships right after a break up
  that will almost guarantee your new relationship will FAIL or worse yet,
  follow the same course as your last relationship – pg. 92

Avoiding The Mistakes Guys Make That Ruin New Relationships

• Why
  so many guys come across as “needy” or desperate to women right
  after they get out of a relationship; here is a checklist to make sure you
  arent making any of the same mistakes – pg. 78
• How
  to get past the crippling fear that “no one else will make you feel the
  same as your ex” (This is one of the most powerful tips in the entire
  book) – pg. 61
• The
  most frightening things to many guys is that they will meet another special
  women and the same thing will happen again. Here is a set of “thought
  experiments” that will keep this from happening – pg. 65

“I was actually about to
send my ex an email (One I had spent hours writing and rewriting) and I’m glad I
found your stuff before I did I know by now I would have felt worse for sending
it.”

Brent, – UK

“Honestly, I was dreading
finding myself in the self-help isle of a bookstore, thanks for saving me that
trip…”

Amit, – UK

“The trick with the music
really made all the difference after a few days. That surprised me.”

B., Financial advisor – NYC

“I looked for all kinds of
things to make me feel better… Instead of the normal clichs you actually gave
me practical, real world information, advice, and things I could actually do
something with. “

M.,IT Specialist – San Antonio, TX

“I was dreading finding
myself in the self-help isle of a bookstore, thanks for saving me that trip…
Thanks man.”

Brandon, Student – White Plains, NY

“Knowing what to expect in
the next few weeks has already made things easier. The fact that the pain I was
feeling had up and downs I could anticipate gave me a sense of control.”

Clayton, student – UK

“Understanding the whole
process made it go from a seeming life or death trauma to something like getting
over a bad flu.”

M., Linguist- Rockville, MD

“Honestly, I’m not a big
fan of reading these types of things… Thank you for giving me all the useful
advice without making me read for hours.”

G, Law student – Los Angeles, CA

“Being in a small town, I
was terrified of running into my ex again…Everytime I was making plans to go
places I would worry that I would see her. Now that I’m over it, that just
doesn’t bother me anymore.”

V, Student – Bakersville, CA

The
Sad Fact Is That Most Guys Won’t Even Bother To Look For Answers

      The fact that you are even looking for
answers in this area of your life puts you in a very small group of guys. 

Guys often are too proud to ask for help in
this area of their life or they feel helpless to do anything about it.

They “wait it out” and just soak
in the pain, literally for years sometimes until it finally passes…

Even then they end up seething with
resentment and anger for the effect has had on them.

And most of the time they aren’t even aware
that is what’s happening to them.

Then there is a much smaller group of guys
who actually face what’s going on and the do whatever it takes to push through
it.

They come out the other side feeling
empowered and more confident about how they are going to deal with women and
relationships in the future.

I’ve done both of these, and I can tell you
right now…

Waiting it out does NOT work.

I want to bring you the insight that not
only comes from going through it several times myself, but also helping
literally hundreds of guys through the whole process. 

As
A Bonus Youll Get My “Advanced Techniques” Booklet

      The most painful aspect of being heartbroken
is exhausting repetition that goes on in
your head. Many guys spend almost all of their thoughts on:

• Replaying
  conversations in their head
• Being
  reminded of their ex wherever they go
• Constantly
  seeing girls that look like their ex
• Rehearsing
  what they will say the next time they see their ex
• Bothered
  by memories of the good times they had together
• Haunted
  by images of their ex girlfriend with another guy

These are a natural part of healing and
these usually diminish over time but for many guys these spin out of control and
become self-torture they
have no control over.

After putting out my “7 First Steps For
Relief” I got a strong response from people who really said they benefited
from ACTION oriented
techniques.

So I decided to compile together the most
powerful cutting edge techniques available ANYWHERE that eliminate repetative
thoughts, images and fantasies.

You won’t find a compilation of these
little known techniques anywhere else on the planet. This
is a fusion of techniques from various disciplines, some conventional and some
“underground”.

WARNING: These are designed to “force
feed” relief to even the
most stubborn and resistant minds. This
is very powerful material, and you should only use these techniques when you are
REALLY ready to move on.

You’ll learn:

• How
  to change the memories of you and your ex to pleasant memories instead of haunting
  and painful ones. This
  is a 4 step visualization technique that can be done in 5
  minutes, and everytime you use it the MORE effective it becomes – pg. 3
• A
  powerful “reframe recipe” that will zero in on the thoughts and
  beliefs that are keeping you from wanting to
  move on. You’ll be surprised how better
  you will feel just
  after this one exercise – pg. 5
• Here
  is a powerful prescription for weeding out the “inner critic” that
  keeps fueling your bad moods, by adding one little twist to the thoughts it
  will instantly unhook
  their effect on your mood -
  pg. 4
• A
  simple practice that will allow you to eliminate runaway
  “thought-loops” about your ex; this teaching has its origins in
  Buddhist meditation practices and has been “modified” for this
  specific use – pg. 6
• A
  visualization technique that will actually weaken the
  emotional attachment you
  have to your ex girlfriend (Again, I warn you to use these with care) – pg.
  11
• Here
  is a really effective exercise that will alow you to integrate the memory of
  your relationship into your entire life, so that you start toregain
  your own identity -
  pg. 16
• A
  quick imagry excercise that trains
  your unconscious to let
  go, but does so without feeling
  unnatural or forced – pg. 7
• A
  simple “fast forward” exercise that will help put
  you in the mindset of guy who is single, enjoying
  the dating life and new relationships and new options with women – pg. 13
• A
  should-be-patented “Lemon Squeeze” technique that will help you
  erase recurring images or
  thoughts of your ex with other guys -
  pg. 14

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The
Biggest Regret Guys Have Is NOT That They Let Their Ex Girlfriend Go…It’s That
TheyMissed Out On So Much During
The Months Or Years They Spent Hanging On

 Let
me ask you this: What if this knowledge helps you get over your ex ONE day
sooner. What is one less day of that empty and lonely feeling worth?  What
if a just one technique you learn makes all the difference between a
relaxed, fun evening out with your friends or staying at home still upset
because you can’t stop thinking about your ex? What
if you no longer have the crippling fear of heartbreak no matter how many
interesting, attractive women you date in the future? What would that be
worth? What
if you have the confidence that comes from knowing how ever things turn out
with ANY girl, you know that you’ll be okay and you can move on? How much
stronger do you think you would come across to women if they could sense
that in you?

 What
if you could walk through your town or city and never worry about seeing
your ex, because you have the assurance that if you did, it wouldn’t effect
you or you would probably be too busy enjoying the company of your date for
that evening to even care?

 What
would that be worth to you? A hundred dollars? Five hundred dollars? More? 

 Looking
back now, I honestly, really wish that I would have been able to buy this
knowledge, insight and experience for $37when
I went through my last few painful breakups.

“Comfort
Food” Delivery…$30

      The impulse to fill the void after a breakup
can feel very much like hunger. In fact, most people treat it as if it is and
they tend to overeat to make themselves feel better. 

In most cases this “food therapy”
can make you end up feeling worse about yourself and yet another reason to beat
yourself up. So be careful of the urge to binge eat when you are feeling down.

A
Night Out On The Town…$80

      Drinking to make themselves feel better is
common thing guys do to escape from the pain of a breakup. 

But instead of a great release from all the
built up anxiety and a chance to reconnect with friends… Guys will often feel
worse afterwards than they did before, because that emptiness is still there
when they get home. 

There is of course the added danger of the
drunk dial, drunk text, and the drunk out-in-front-of-the-exes-lawn at 3 am (Not
that you would ever do that…)

“Feel
Good” Shopping…$100+

      Another really common distraction guys get
tempted to do is to go out and buy things. Clothes, electronics, appliances,
etc. You name it. 

This often will just make you feel better
for a little while, but ultimately filling up the emptiness temporarily with new
stuff is not the answer.

A
Therapist…$200 Per Hour

      Some kinds of therapy can address many of
the same issues that are covered in Get Over Her Now. Only problem is it takes
MUCH longer to start seeing the benefits that you can get from reading and
applying the techniques in this book. 

And that is ONLY if you are lucky enough to
find a sophisticated result-oriented therapist, and not one that just lets you
spin your wheels only to prescribe you medication when you are done.

Loss
of Time, Enjoyment, & Productivity…$1000+

      Heartache clouds the mind, wears down the
body, and constantly stirs up painful emotions. 

The bottom line is the more you put off
getting this part of your life handled, the longer the other goals, dreams and
new relationships are going to be on standby.

Damage
to Future Relationships…$$$?

      Time and time again I have seen new
relationships get ruined because the guy is still bitter about or hung up on his
ex. 

The anger, frustration, mistrust, and the
expectation of failure from the bad break up seep into the new one. This can
cripple a new relationship right from the start, or worse, it negatively affects
the relationship after it gets serious.

Read
It First, Then Decide…

Armed with this knowledge, I promise you are
going to feel like a new man within 21 days of reading this book and using the
ideas and techniques inside it. Once you apply the concepts and techniques,
you’ll notice: 

And there’s one more thing you’ll notice. 

I can’t say when. It may happen the day you
finish the book…within the first couple of weeks… or a couple of months down
the road, but it will happen. I promise you. I refer to this as the
“tipping point” in the process

It will feel like a fog has lifted… When
it happens you’ll know exactlywhat
I’m talking about.

Why? Two reasons. First, any fears or doubts
you had about your ability to be happy without your ex girlfriend will be gone.

And second… perhaps for the first time in
a long time… you will see an exciting, adventurous single life ahead of you. 

Talk to you soon, 

Dan Dennick

Author – Get Over Her Now

Drop me an email at Daniel@getoverhernow.com

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P.S. The
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time offer as once I
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Take advantage of being one of the first to buy at this low price.

The
Risk Is Entirely Mine

P.S.S. You
really have nothing to lose. If reading this book doesn’t deliver you everything
that I have promised I will buy it back from you, no questions asked. You have
everything to gain.

The
Concepts & Techniques In This Book Are Specifically For Guys In Your
Situation

P.S.S.S. I am
dedicated to this being the best source for guys who need help with getting
through painful breakups. I try to read and respond to all of my emails, and if
I get special questions that I think many guys can relate to I put them in my
newsletter

Quotes From Get Over Her
Now Readers…

“I had just come back from
a tour of duty in Iraq to find my fiance had cheated on me. I was so devastated,
and to make things worse I was still trying to get her back. I still feel kind
of stupid for being so weak, but I’m so glad its over now. Reading your book
helped me move on.”

Craig, – Fort Worth, TX

“I really couldn’t accept
that it was over because I kept thinking about it over and over again. Couldn’t
sleep at night, and it was begining to be obvious at work that there was
something wrong. I was playing World of Warcraft pretty much all evening so I
didn’t have to think about it. Thanks for getting me out of that funk.”

Jared – Tampa, FL

“…Stuck watching
television and eating fried chicken every night. I didn’t even bathe for a few
days and I didn’t care. It didn’t feel like things were going to get better and
thats when my ex girlfriend had her friend come by my house to get her stuff.
She didn’t even want to see me that last time, and I almost lost it. The chapter
about painlessly cutting off contact was really helpful.”

Chad, – New York, NY

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